~ I Conquer All ~

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~ Love Conquers All ~

This one phrase has different meaning for different people. The most important connection it creates is that it brings in a  picture of perfect ending to our minds that we all seek knowingly and unknowingly. Most of the time, I like any other Savior of love n happy ending do not challenge it.

However there are times like today, when I see a tear in someone’s eyes, with just a simply question, why isn’t this true for me. I just wanted to put my arms around and tell wait for the right realization to come and everything will fall in place. However, Today I refuse to indulge in happy ending with no reasons. I want to share the other side of the mirror to the eyes that look at me with so much love n surrender.

We all have fallen in love and and risen above it too. So love is not a illusion nor is it a reality if you really ask me. Love has no meaning what so ever as for some its emotions, for some security, for a few its power and for other its deceit. So we all wear different glasses at different time to seek what is right for us in the name of love.

When I look back, which am sure you too will when you read this, there will be a smile on ya face and attached to it will be the bitter sweet feelings. I want to look beyond the memories today and what to share something that changed my association with this quote ~ LOVE CONQUERS ALL ~  new meaning that I had given it a long time ago. Time when I too was deep into question like why me. The deep darkness n sadness was all I could identify myself with and it was weighing heavy on me every step I took in believing in Love.

It’s said the pain can only bring ecstasy, Without loosing gain has no meaning. And In My Pain And Loss I found a new meaning of “LOVE CONQUERS ALL”. For me a simple realization that first I Am In Love was the first step for accepting all my fears, questions, ifs n buts. The Ownership of the feeling that was making me weak is the key that will unlock the doors of healing and conquering love.

We need to change the way we look at love at times, and ask what is it giving us, is it bring any value to me or is it just that using me against me. That Is When Self Love makes entry and knocks softly at your door and asks you, why are you ignoring me for something that is not valuing you.

I needed to look straight into its eye and all answer start appearing. For Me the new meaning came like a Jinny appearing with a magic lamp. Why should I give LOVE for someone else the power to make me happy or sad.  When I take that power of conquering all with self love and self celebration the true meaning appears. ” I CONQUER ALL “.

When I love and celebrate myself and recognize the power and consciously take away the power from others to make me feel what I want to feel is when I CONQUER ALL. I from that day, took charge of my happiness, success, my journey, my learning and left behind the seeking for love and become LOVE myself.

I wish some of you will also become LOVE and CONQUER ALL, without giving the power to someone else. So Now my perfect ending just needs me and no one has a power to change that.

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7 thoughts on “~ I Conquer All ~

  1. You give me hope. Hope that in my pain I will gain ecstasy. Waiting for that day I understand the learning… I never wanted this.. All I wanted was an honest relationship.
    I was in a relationship with a man who had no qualms about sleeping around… Gave me STD… I never realised how he was slowly grooming me, to fulfill his wishes..made me distant from my close friends. he did it so subtely..I was hooked…financially i am zero because I kept giving money for the expenses we bore while we were out together.
    Now when I think back I see how he used to guard his phone, computer etc and had access to mine.. Gain sympathy by telling stories on how he was wronged. Every story has another side to it.. I never thought about that.. By the time I kicked him out of my life I have lost my trust on men and l certainly had no self love then.

  2. Thanks for taking time out to comment. I would just say, U need to learn the lesson and not hold on to the incident. Let life pass by if u try holding past, it will keep taking you on ransom. DO connect to me on my page on fb by my name to keep the contact.

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