Strengths ~ #Games we play

#pagefromthecoachesdairy

We keep talking about our #qualities. How our qualities help us in building us.

However we fail to see that they also are cause of our #turmoil or #conflict.

I asked one of my #coachee to state his qualities tat make him feel great and powerful about himself.

Once he stated them, I asked him take a pause to evaluate ~ his current problem ~ and how his own qualities were #impacting the situation. We keep playing #hidenseek with our real self and #blame others for the mess.

There are times, when your over use of your own qualities put you in a problem and sometimes we can use another quality to defuse the situation.

#TAKEAPAUSE and #Observe … You have the solutions. You just need a #Coach or #Mentor to ask you the right questions.

#mantra #grace #selfesteem #nurture #enough #core #empowered #acceptance #self #possibilities #compassion # #question #beyourself #understand #iamenough #happiness #gratitude #conversation #youcan.