~ I Conquer All ~

~ Love Conquers All ~

This one phrase has different meaning for different people. The most important connection it creates is that it brings in a  picture of perfect ending to our minds that we all seek knowingly and unknowingly. Most of the time, I like any other Savior of love n happy ending do not challenge it.

However there are times like today, when I see a tear in someone’s eyes, with just a simply question, why isn’t this true for me. I just wanted to put my arms around and tell wait for the right realization to come and everything will fall in place. However, Today I refuse to indulge in happy ending with no reasons. I want to share the other side of the mirror to the eyes that look at me with so much love n surrender.

We all have fallen in love and and risen above it too. So love is not a illusion nor is it a reality if you really ask me. Love has no meaning what so ever as for some its emotions, for some security, for a few its power and for other its deceit. So we all wear different glasses at different time to seek what is right for us in the name of love.

When I look back, which am sure you too will when you read this, there will be a smile on ya face and attached to it will be the bitter sweet feelings. I want to look beyond the memories today and what to share something that changed my association with this quote ~ LOVE CONQUERS ALL ~  new meaning that I had given it a long time ago. Time when I too was deep into question like why me. The deep darkness n sadness was all I could identify myself with and it was weighing heavy on me every step I took in believing in Love.

It’s said the pain can only bring ecstasy, Without loosing gain has no meaning. And In My Pain And Loss I found a new meaning of “LOVE CONQUERS ALL”. For me a simple realization that first I Am In Love was the first step for accepting all my fears, questions, ifs n buts. The Ownership of the feeling that was making me weak is the key that will unlock the doors of healing and conquering love.

We need to change the way we look at love at times, and ask what is it giving us, is it bring any value to me or is it just that using me against me. That Is When Self Love makes entry and knocks softly at your door and asks you, why are you ignoring me for something that is not valuing you.

I needed to look straight into its eye and all answer start appearing. For Me the new meaning came like a Jinny appearing with a magic lamp. Why should I give LOVE for someone else the power to make me happy or sad.  When I take that power of conquering all with self love and self celebration the true meaning appears. ” I CONQUER ALL “.

When I love and celebrate myself and recognize the power and consciously take away the power from others to make me feel what I want to feel is when I CONQUER ALL. I from that day, took charge of my happiness, success, my journey, my learning and left behind the seeking for love and become LOVE myself.

I wish some of you will also become LOVE and CONQUER ALL, without giving the power to someone else. So Now my perfect ending just needs me and no one has a power to change that.

Mirror Of Judgement

It’s an old saying “when you are ready to learn master will appear.”

I could never relate to this as I always believed I will choose when to learn and than will seek the person I want learn from. However this saying became a reality for me today as a simple LAW OF MIRROR became my teacher and took my hand and showed me the new way of looking at myself.

Mirror is known to be women’s best friend … and when we see in the mirror we see what we want to see. You will say am being stupid. We see exactly who we are in the mirror, however I want you to look deeper, when we see ourselves in the mirror what do we notice or focus on. How am I looking today is the first thought that comes to us and immediately after it comes a second thought with bigger force. The thought of self analysis n self correction. We start looking for what not right instead of what’s right. That’s how life happens to us everyday.

So now when you look in the mirror see what u can be, YOU CAN BE ANYONE YOU WANT TO BE, rather than what you are not. We often make excuses of not believing in us, We often blames people, circumstances and happening for making us what we have become. However what we forget is what we see in the mirror is what we become, Only we have the power to make or break us. We can never outperform our self image no matter where we go in life, how successful we become or how much effort we put in to improve ourselves. So what I can do or rather we should do is …. look into the mirror and see who you want to be, As if we put a small price tag or value to us, no one in the world will raise the value. Have you ever paid anyone a few hundreds extra than what the price tag.

I don’t need to wait for the answer, we all know the answer, So control your self talk, guard the thoughts you have about yourself. Stop questioning yourself, stop pointing fingers at yourself about what you had done in the past or had happened to you. Stop listening to these hummmming sounds of self doubt and start increasing the volume of self praise. As there is no magic wand to make negative disappear, the best n the tried and tested way to do that simple. lets say you can hear two song playing in ur mind, one is a happy one and the other is the sad one and you don’t have a control of switching one off and  suddenly you realise that the sad one is making a bigger impact on you. So what u do to stop its impact. Simple raise the volume of the happy song, I can see you all smiling as its the magic wand. Raise the volume and frequency of positive thoughts, so that you mind is filled by them and the negative or the sad humming sound dies its own death by getting pushed into the corner.

So dear friends I want you to Put a loud music around you of self worth and self image ans I want you to celebrate yourself, stop judging the person in the mirror start celebrating her as she has a reason to be joyous and to be free from judgement of self believes.

So break the mirror of Judgement and bring in the mirror of self image n self believe. RAISE YOUR VALUE ~ RAISE THE PRICE TAG

Lastly will want to express my gratitude to My Master Mind Session Mentor ~ Mr Girish Bhatia for bring my master to me.